by theonehipguy@gmail.com | Jun 11, 2014 | Uncategorized
It seems in this fast paced world there is a never ending need to create a legacy…I hear it all the time.
More and more people want to leave their mark on the planet. In the words of Steve Jobs “a ding” in the universe.
Yet what is a legacy? The definition in Wikipedia says: Legacies are, more or less, what we remember about a person or a country. What an individual or a country does today might, in the future, be regarded as being important enough to be thought of as a memorable legacy from the 21st Century.
In the 2 years since my hip replacement I have been more keenly aware of my mortality and those I love and just how fragile and temporary we really are. I have really thought long on the word legacy and what it means.
For some people leaving a legacy might mean writing a book, becoming famous, inventing something that wasn’t there before, creating a nutrition company like USANA, exploring unknown, and so on.
To me the definition of a legacy is far deeper. Whose lives did I touch? How many times have I helped someone in need? Did I lift someone up or put them down? Did I teach my children to love? Love life, love each other, forgive others?
Are you creating a legacy everytime you smile at a stranger? Let someone in during rush hour? Tell someone that you love them? I believe these are the building blocks of creating the real legacy.
We have all heard of the butterfly effect. Wikipedia the definiton says: In chaos theory, the butterfly effect is the sensitive dependency on initial conditions in which a small change at one place in a deterministic nonlinear system can result in large differences in a later state. The name of the effect, coined by Edward Lorenz, is derived from the theoretical example of a hurricane’s formation being contingent on whether or not a distant butterfly had flapped its wings several weeks earlier.
What we do today WILL create a legacy of sorts. A kind word, a hug, encouragement will be the fuel to create a butterfly effect and in essence a legacy.
Start each day with the mindset that you will make someone’s life a little better today. It will be the first flap of the butterfly wings that can shape that person’s hour, day, week, year. It is also shaping your hour, day, week, year! This legacy will not be written about, there will be no movie, it won’t be on the 6 o’clock news. It will be completely forgotten in our concious thought yet I believe always remembered in our subconcious.
Legacy is when we are genuinely grounded in making a meaningful, lasting and energizing contribution to humanity by serving a cause greater than your own.
Go out and make someone smile today…create a legacy, your legacy!
John OneHipGuy
by theonehipguy@gmail.com | Jun 4, 2014 | Uncategorized
Summer is fast approaching and with that comes longer days. We seem to get more accomplished from working in the garden to playing golf. Maybe it’s a trip to a patio to enjoy time with some friends while having a sip of our favorite beverage.
The longer days often mean that we go to bed later. Remember to get that important part of your health in during the summer months as much as the winter.
One element that most people are not aware is that lack of sleep can cause weight gain.
Researchers speculate that people who have chronic sleep deprivation might have weight gain, either by increasing how much they eat or decreasing the energy that they burn.
Lack of sleep can cause the following:
Increase hunger: Sleep deprivation may alter hormones that control hunger especially for food rich in fat and carbohydrates.
Giving people more time to eat: People who sleep less each night may eat more simply because they are awake longer.
Decreasing physical activity: People who do not get enough sleep are more tired during the day, and as a result may curb their physical activity.
Lowering body temperature: In laboratory experiments, people who are sleep deprived tend to see a drop in their body temperatures. This drop may lead to decrease energy expenditure.
The recommended amount of sleep for an adult is seven to eight hours per night. Older adults need the same amount of sleep as younger adults. Older adults tend to sleep lighter and for shorter periods so there may be a need for napping.
In the book called Healthy Home by Dr. Myron Wentz, he discusses the need to get the electronic distractions out of the bedroom. Electromagnetic fields are created by our gadgets and we have to contend with them all the time. Get them out of our bedrooms so we can have a more restful sleep. This includes removing the TV from the bedroom. How about your cell phone? Is it on the night stand? By your pillow? Or how about under your pillow? Get your cell phone out of the bedroom too! What color light emits from your alarm clock? Studies have shown that the color red is best for not interrupting your rem pattern should you wake in the middle of the night. Make your bedroom a EMF free zone!
One more thought…make sure that your bedroom is dark. The better we are able to keep the light out the better we will sleep. Does the streetlight brighten your room? Use dark out curtains to help promote a more restful sleep.
I hope this has been an “enlightening” read!
John-OneHipGuy
by theonehipguy@gmail.com | Jun 2, 2014 | Uncategorized
Almost everyone I have met can tell me a story around almost every scar on their body. How old they were, where they got it, why it happened and so on. Think about it…look at a scar on your body right now and I bet you can remember almost to the day where, why, and how you got it.
Our childhood is full of these stories. Perhaps the scar on your shin came from the fall off a bike or the scar on your finger came from the Swiss army knife you were using to whittle a stick. These scars…battle scars tell a tale. They are a roadmap of sorts in our journey on this planet. Many of us are proud of our scars and reflect favorably on the days of our youth and fearless pursuit of whatever it was we were aspiring to have, be, or do at that particular moment.
I remember one scar over my right eye that I got playing high school hockey. Fighting for the puck in the offensive zone and went down in the process and as the play started to go the other way got stepped on…lost part of the bone along the eye socket and had a heck of a black eye! Great battle scar that I still tell the tale to whoever will listen. Of course the story is much more exaggerated than it really was but it is a fun story none the less.
Whats my point?
This week I came across some people who like me had hip replacement surgery or were about to go in for surgery. There were quite a few people who seemed distraught at the thought of having a scar. Prior to having my surgery I have to admit I was a little concerned about having a scar yet afterwards I saw this as a battle scar and that I won the battle. The war may not be completely over yet at this moment in time I know that I have won. Unfortunately I no longer will be able to wear my speedo on the beach without attracting attention…okay okay wearing a speedo always attracts attention!
The real issue about having a scar is not the physical one but the emotional one. We can see the physical scars yet for many their emotional scars are so much bigger. Some feel that they are going to be looked at differently. I don’t see it that way. I believe those who have had surgery are the ones that look at others differently…looking to see if someone notices or says something hurtful. Protecting ourselves from insensitive comments by not telling people around us. That’s a load of crap! It is time to park the ego and accept that everyone has something going on their life and I mean everyone!
Know this…it is not your fault!
Anyone who reads this blog can attest to the physical and emotional scars in their life. You are who you are today as a result of getting those battle scars. They tell a story, your story, share this story, they are your roadmap and have made you who you are today.
Love who you are and all the scars that go with it!
John One Hip Guy
by theonehipguy@gmail.com | May 28, 2014 | Uncategorized
Almost everyone I have met can tell me a story around almost every scar on their body. How old they were, where they got it, why it happened and so on. Think about it…look at a scar on your body right now and I bet you can remember almost to the day where, why, and how you got it.
Our childhood is full of these stories. Perhaps the scar on your shin came from the fall off a bike or the scar on your finger came from the Swiss army knife you were using to whittle a stick. These scars…battle scars tell a tale. They are a roadmap of sorts in our journey on this planet. Many of us are proud of our scars and reflect favorably on the days of our youth and fearless pursuit of whatever it was we were aspiring to have, be, or do at that particular moment.
I remember one scar over my right eye that I got playing high school hockey. Fighting for the puck in the offensive zone and went down in the process and as the play started to go the other way got stepped on…lost part of the bone along the eye socket and had a heck of a black eye! Great battle scar that I still tell the tale to whoever will listen. Of course the story is much more exaggerated than it really was but it is a fun story none the less.
Whats my point?
This week I came across some people who like me had hip replacement surgery or were about to go in for surgery. There were quite a few people who seemed distraught at the thought of having a scar. Prior to having my surgery I have to admit I was a little concerned about having a scar yet afterwards I saw this as a battle scar and that I won the battle. The war may not be completely over yet at this moment in time I know that I have won. Unfortunately I no longer will be able to wear my speedo on the beach without attracting attention…okay okay wearing a speedo always attracts attention!
The real issue about having a scar is not the physical one but the emotional one. We can see the physical scars yet for many their emotional scars are so much bigger. Some feel that they are going to be looked at differently. I don’t see it that way. I believe those who have had surgery are the ones that look at others differently…looking to see if someone notices or says something hurtful. Protecting ourselves from insensitive comments by not telling people around us. That’s a load of crap! It is time to park the ego and accept that everyone has something going on their life and I mean everyone!
Know this…it is not your fault!
Anyone who reads this blog can attest to the physical and emotional scars in their life. You are who you are today as a result of getting those battle scars. They tell a story, your story, share this story, they are your roadmap and have made you who you are today.
Love who you are and all the scars that go with it!
John One Hip Guy
by theonehipguy@gmail.com | May 21, 2014 | Uncategorized
I am always amazed at how little attention we pay to our bodies.
It seems our bodies talk to us in subtle ways yet most of us are not listening.
Case in point…I met a 40 something lady in the gym awhile back and noticed how hard she went on the elliptical. She was on the elliptical for over 90 minutes and she varied her speeds from easy to the highest intensity. When she got off I commented on how hard she had worked out. I was surprised by her answer.
It turns out that her right hip was giving her a lot of pain and that it was getting progressively worse. Say what?
I was completely caught of guard by her answer simply because I would not have expected anyone dealing with joint pain to overdo the joint! It seemed crazy to me yet when I reflected on this more it started to make sense. No one likes to be faced with the possibility that our health may not be the way it was when we were younger so we still go hard to prove that we can. Admitting that there is a pending problem is difficult to do because it may mean doing things differently in the future.
I told my new friend that she should ice her sore hip and perhaps take it easier on the elliptical to reduce the pain. I recommended that she stretch, get some massage therapy or physiotherapy and to take care of her hip. Most of all to listen to her body!
Do we listen to our bodies when we are tired? Hungry? Thirsty? When we overeat?
Maybe it is time we all took the time to pay attention.
Pay attention today or pay with pain tomorrow. It sounds harsh but the reality is we all need to stop going a million miles an hour and listen. Someone is talking to you…
John-One Hip Guy
by theonehipguy@gmail.com | May 14, 2014 | Uncategorized
I constantly see people talking about being on a diet, just coming off a diet, thinking about going on a diet. I think it is time to talk about why people have so many issues around weight and in particular weight loss.
First if someone is serious about losing weight they must consider a variety of factors. To effectively lose weight and keep it off requires dedication and then moderation. Too many times dieting involves doing without and then when the diet is over there is a sense of relief and old habits come back.
First understand the glycemic index and what foods are good for you and what goods might not be so good. The glycemic index is actually quite easy to follow once you understand it. The image below shows the good, bad, and ugly when it come to the glycemic index.
Once you know you need to eat low glycemic foods then find a chart like the one provided to give you some guidance on what foods you should or shouldn’t eat.
It is actually quite easy to follow the food recommendations in the glycemic index. It is obvious that there are certain foods you should always avoid, however there are surprises in there too. Almost all root vegetables are classified as simple sugars or simple carbohydrates. They convert very quickly to sugar in the body and therefore will spike your blood sugar. If you want to lose weight then keep potatoes out of your diet all the time! Sorry that means french fries too!
The goal when you eat is to remain in the healthy green zone and not go into the yo-yo zone because your blood sugar going up and down is unhealthy and will cause cravings and unhealthy food choices. See the chart below to see what happens when you fall out of the green zone.
Once someone understands the glycemic index then the next step is to understand the glycemic load. The glycemic load (GL) of food is a number that estimates how much the food will raise a person’s blood glucose level after eating it. One unit of glycemic load approximates the effect of consuming one gram of glucose.
You can go to http://www.health.harvard.edu/newsweek/Glycemic_index_and_glycemic_load_for_100_foods.htm to see what the load is for many of the foods you eat.
There are many failed attempts at dieting simply because the person who is on the diet does not understand the triggers that cause cravings and the overwheling desire to eat anything in sight. First and most important step in my view is understanding how our blood sugar goes up and down based on the foods we eat. Once this is understood then it becomes much simpler to maintain a healthy diet and lose weight without starving.
Have a great week!
John–One Hip Guy
